Unemployed single mom of 2 kids

Update posted by Pat Kubheka On Jun 24, 2020

My name is Pat kubheka I am 44 years old, I live in south of Johannesburg (Suideroord). I am unemployed since November 2016. I have 2 kids, daughter at the university and son at primary school. I don’t have parents, mom passed away 2007 and I have never met my father.

2007 My mom passed away due to heart failure and her blood pressure was very high. she was 48 years old. I am the only child to my mom and never met my father it was so difficult, hard and challenging to arranger her funeral and to loose my mother. Since 2007 my life is not stable and I don’t enjoy living or to see the next day.

2009 I lost my aunt, 2012 my cousin, 2014 my uncle and then 2016 my other uncle. 2016 Nov I lost my job that was the worst thing I have experienced in my life, I was doomed and I felt so lost, miserable heartbroken.

My blood pressure was 95/202 and the nurses at the clinic told me I need to be admitted cause this is leading to a stroke. I stayed at the clinic the whole day to be monitored and got a letter for admissions at the hospital.

2017 I lost my car, my debts are increasing every month. My creditors are calling me everyday demanding payments even after I explained to them that I can’t afford to pay since I lost my job and I am battling to get a job after so many applications I have put through.

2018-2019 I have been living in the dark with no income little food donated by friends & family friends and it is so hard to live like this waiting for people to donate food or some cash for us to live.

2020 still no job no income, battling to get the social grant from government. My bank is also demanding pay for my bond, I am about to lose a home for my kids. Body corporate at the complex is demanding levy payment, they are threatening me to take my water & electricity away and will list me at the credit Buruer. My creditors are also demanding their payment.

This feels like a nightmare. Other days I feel useless and wish everything should go away so I can be stress free. I feel so depressed each time I think of all of this and it affect my health so badly. I wish I can control and fix the situation. It is overwhelming I don’t pass a day without thinking about how am I going to sort this thing out, sometimes I feel like losing hope and give up but when I think of my kids and how far I have come through. I pray for miracle to happen so I can be out of this dilemma

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My name is Pat kubheka I am 44 years old, I live in south of Johannesburg (Suideroord). I am unemployed since November 2016. I have 2 kids, daughter a

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