Trying to get through the storm!

When I was born, I lost my right kidney and had a hernia with a hydrocele. My parents were told if they removed them, there was a chance of them coming back. Well 29 years later they came back along with something called a vericocele. About a month ago I was in alot of pain and went to the emergency room one night. Little did I know that night was the start of some more serious problems. After a few follow-up appointments I was told I have Stage 0 Bladder which is the very early stages. They are hoping my immune system will help fight it since it's so early but plan on doing a cystoscope to start it off. With all of these issues, it has caused me to not be able to work at my current job which is very unfortunate because I had surgery set up with my insurance for next month. The surgery and any process before and after will be rough. This has really changed my perspective on life! Any support would be amazing!