Soul mates want to say “I Do”

Hello friends! This is my first time doing anything like this. It took me a long time to decide to even take this risk as I feel these sites are for people who are in need of donations for their health, charity events, funerals, etc. I just need help and don't know where to turn. I am 29 years old and he is 26. Tyler and I met in 2009. It was love at first site for both of us. :) I have a 6 almost 7 year old son whos father has never been around. Tyler is a wonderful man and has called my son his own without regret. With all relationships we've had our bumps in the road. We've been to the bottom and are slowly making our way up. Tyler asked me to marry him 3 years ago, but our finances wouldn't allow us. So we pushed it back. I was diagnosed a year later with RA and lupus so our finances took yet another decline due to dr. Visits and medications. Just this March we decided we were going to get married, find a way to say I do. We have been cutting things down to save money..but we are still not able to make it. I have asked for help from my family, but no one is able to pitch in. So we have to pay for everything. His mom is a photographer so we are ok with pictures.  What we really need the help with is the Dress, the venues and the food.  We wanted the wedding to be May 24th, 2014, but I doubt that will be possible,  unless we get some kind of help. Im slowly giving up on my dream to marry my best friend and have a beautiful wedding. If anyone is willing to help us, it is greatly appreciated.  Thank you for your time. :)