I am not going to lie but I need the money to buy a house for my partner and her kids in the middle of no-where.
I met my partner online 5 years ago online and we started chatting, she told me all her troubles and hardships she had been having and what debts she had build up over the years which did being honest scared me off her and not to get involved .But I felt sorry for the kids not having toys and the only proper meal they got was a school dinner . A year later we got together and I took on her children and been a good samartian I was hoping to give her and the kids a better life. Well we got together and moved from England to Ireland and started our lives together with the kids. I help manage her debts and bills and get them in prespective which I did after 3 years working together we cleared the debts that so far we know about so hopefully we have them all cleared. A year ago her stepfather and mother came over to live in Ireland and got a council house like us which was nice I thought 3 months later 2 of her stepsister moved over and got there own council houses. Then about 3 weeks later the fun all started I was in shock that a mother could be so rude and call her daughter the names and remarks she spoken her stepfather was just as bad that give me the impression he is the driving force behind it all her 2 stepsisters where disgusting in there name calling.
It finally made sense why my partner was in so much debt that she was in when I first spoke to her she had been getting out loans and items on credit for her family and keeping them in a lifestyle which they had loved and enjoyed till I came on the seen and moved her to Ireland and got her debts cleared .
The bottom line was for my partner to have her mum stepdad and stepsisters and to be part of the family she would have to give them money and what ever they wanted or they would disown her from the family .
Now my partner has been disowned from the family and want they nothing to with her but like they have shouted when she is out we will destroy you I wont say the word but begins with b with a f in front of it.
They have tried everything they have got social workers involved to try and get the kids taken of us given that youngest is 12 and the eldest has just turned 21 yesterday who has learning problems that her granny pounced on her when she went to a corner shop and told her she should never been born which was nice for a girls 21st .
We do have another girl but she got into a local university but had to change her dream occupation to be and go to another university to study another subject so she had to leave home and go into hiding to avoid the abuse.
We have been in constant contact with the Police for help and we where advice to find a house in the middle of nowhere with a road that her family would not need to be on anytime of the day and have no reason to be there what so ever and if possible disappear of the radar not to be found as the way it sits the police have told us her family have done there research and aren't breaking any laws as it stands .But to find a house in the middle of nowhere where they should have of no need to be near .Then they could take action but as it sits until we move its not going to stop which is why I have asked here for help as I have been close to doing something stupid to end my own life but I stopped when I discovered my partner had the tablets and she was thinking the same thing. Which we both broke down in floods of tears as it has really effect each other that we had been putting on brave faces for the kids sakes for them not to be worried about anything that in fact we later found out that our girls do not want to leave the house as they are afraid what will or could happen them. Our youngest wants to be a doctor when she leaves school a year ago her grades where brilliant a proper little genius but since this has all started her grades aren't as good as she struggles to study and concentrate with fear and it does upset her that they are going to ruin her carer but we try to give her positive advice that she will be that Doctor as we cant bare to be honest and tell her the way her grades or dropping she might not get her dream job.
All I am asking for is help to relocate and get a house school finishes at the end of June and starts again in September so my girls will be housebound for the summer holidays . I would love if I could move from our council house before school start again in September so she will be settled in her new house and isn't house bounded for 2 months
In advance I thank you for any amount you can give even a penny as every penny counts