Project 2014 Recovery

At the end of 2013, life was good. I had a long term boyfriend that I was in love with, enough money to break even, a car to get me to and from work, a handicapped (but happy) daughter, and a married son.   Through an series of unfortunate events, that included having my wages garnished to pay for my daughters medical conditions and a car accident (appeared minor damage at the time), I am now in financial need. Asking for help is not something I am good at, it never has been as a responsible, single mom, but I am desperate. Due to the wage garnishments, I have lost my bank account (I wasn't aware how much was being taken and the automatic withdrawls caused me HUNDREDS of dollars in overdraft fees), my car ended up leaking rain on the passenger side floor causing all modules (including transmission) to flood rendering them worthless (cost to fix $8,000), on top of all of that, my boyfriend broke up with me because he had too many obligations and didn't want to put any effort into a relationship. So I lost my financial help when we broke up and now I am in the hole every day. I have no car, so I am having to impose on friends in order to get to work, but my job is moving from 7 miles away to 30 miles away. Understandably, they don't want me putting that kind of miles on their car. Also my son has been deployed, my grandbaby is due in just a few weeks, and I need to be able to drive to see my first grandaughter and help my daughter-in-law out.  I just want to get to a point where I can break even. I'm not all about luxuries, I've never even been on a vacation in my adult life. I just need a break, to get back on track, to be able to focus on forward and not the plethura of bad events and sadness that 2014 has been.