I am a separated, stressed out mother of 3 AMAZING, GOD Fearing Children, that are still at home. My son is a Senior in HS this year and just turned 18 years old in August. My other son is a Sophmore in HS and just turned 16 in September. My daughter is a Freshman and she just turned 15 yesterday. I was married for 17 years and together about 20. There is a lot to the story and I am not one to talk bad about anyone. I just have been trying to do this on my own for 6 months now and I feel like God tells me all the time to ask for help, but my Pride gets In The Way. I was raised by a single mother my entire life. I don’t ask for help. My dad, I know would have helped me in a second, but he died a year ago on September 20 from injuries he sustained from a motorcycle accident on the 4th of July out riding on a nice day. I miss him so much every day. My mom doesn’t have the means to help, and has worked so hard her whole life. I am not afraid of work. I work 2 jobs if I have time, but I have 3 teenagers in Athletics. Between the 3, we have games 4-5-6 days a week, every week. When we separated my ex, is the one who stayed in the house we rented from his parents for years. They own it and live on the same land.
My kids and God are My Whole World! So, basically I am trying to start over from nothing. I am just wanting to get a 3 BR rental house (if I can’t get approved, which I’m sure I can’t) for my 3 kids and myself. I have no furniture, beds, dishes, curtains...Or anything to my name, except my own clothes, which I am grateful for, but I never shopped for myself. If I have extra money I buy my kids some shoes or clothes. They are growing so much right now.
Not that we need much or that we have ever had a lot, because I was a stay at home mom for 10 years And budgeted. That is why I don’t make much money or have a career.
I am just asking for help to get my family put back together a little. I would be so very grateful for every penny and it will be going towards my home with my kids that I can be proud of, because I work and just need help. I am so grateful for anything I ever receive in my life, but trust me I would so MUCH rather be giving right now than asking for help. Anyone that knows my character could tell you that. I am a giver.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read about my life and helping if you can. God Bless you and your family. ❤️