James and Debra’s wedding

We are planning to get married but very much struggling to save any money in the current financial climate we have been together a while and it is getting us down that we can't tie the knot. We would love to make our children step brother and sister and I want to be able to adopt my fiancés son but can't until married. Wen would be over the moon if we could do this and make a big family unit especially when we plan to expand our family