I had previously been dating a girl since July. I fell hopelessly in love with this single mother of 2 even though I tried to keep it casual. But it came to a point rather quickly where I didnt want to see anyone else and I told her I loved her and we made it official. Months later she gets kicked out of her house and moved in with me. December comes around and she had gotten increasingly depressed. Come to find out her depression was directly related to her drug addiction. She stole $3500 from me over the period of 2 months. I had to take out a $1000 dollar loan a week before Christmas. I had to get money from her just to pay for lunch. I had $20 in my name 5 days after pay day. A lot of the money she stole went to debt, her kids, pills, and christmas presents. She stole my medication that I needed and sold it to get her pills. When I found a text from one of her coworkers asking for my medication she replied, "Not until s*** head gets his refill." I woke her up and called her out on it and she tried to kill herself and I had to call the cops. Lastly my roommate moved out because of her. And she didnt help me pay any of the bills while she lived with me. If it wasnt for automatic payments I would be out of a home right now. When she was released from the hospital she was homeless and I wouldnt let her back in the house. She now is living in a sober living home and trying to get herself together. In January I lost my security clearance, the ability to do my job because of that, my roommate, my money, my girlfriend, my medication, but I've somehow maintained my sanity. I'm in the military so they didn't fire me but now I have to work at the barracks. With this I am just asking for anything to help me pay off my loan, and my credit card. I was screwed over pretty bad. Blind to her addiction because I don't do drugs and I didn't know the signs. Now I have to pick up the pieces. Anything will be much appreciated.