Nora was having pain in her upper left side so I took her to er they came back and said she had a basketball size tumor and it was probably cancer so they sent her by ambulance to different hospital i followed about 135 miles away from home where they told her it was cancer and sent us home told us to come back in a few days so they could do surgery they had to cut her open after that the docter said she had two cancers or one that is worse than they thought.a few days went by i stayed everyday with her on the second day they said she had a bad infection inside her incision so they opened her up and packed the incision and covered it a week goes by they tought me how to pack the incision which is gross by the way and sent us home less then 24hrs later she screams call 911 i ran in the room theres fluid everywhere were both scared to death i have lupus and other problems i thought I was going to have a heart attack the ambulance got here took her to the same er as before were they transported her to the hospital she was in. her lining that holds her guts in ripped so they did an emergency surgery to fix it they made the incision even bigger they still had to stuff her incision for about a week until they decided to put a wound vac on her and let us go home it has to be changed home health comes out every three days to change out the foam they stuff her with foam and put a vac on it.we have to go back every other week it will take a better part of a year to heal and when it heals she'll have to do chemotherapy and they found something in her colon but said we'll have to wait to find out what it is. its costing alot of money and our tires need changed the medical cost alot im trying to get disability we live on $750 a month and have a 14yr old daughter and a 21 year old son that has our first granddaughter and a grandson on the way which we desperately want to go to GA and see. Just need some help i want her to live so I can merry her some day its very hard with the stress of everything car needs tires, battery had to get a jump at hospital just to go home its around 260 mile round trip i would be forever grateful for anything anyone can spare to help us though this tough year or more we have ahead of us. Ive sold everything i had to help with gas food and that isnt getting us far. Thank you and bless you!! We've been back in hospital for almost two weeks she had a third surgery. And multiple infections they wrapped her legs today. Het legs are swollen with blisters on them. Its going to be a year or more for recovery when we get out im sick as well km hoping my doc can help me so I can better care for my wife. She will have home health care when she gets out and in a year or so she will do chemotherapy. Would like to get car fixed and a better place to live so she can get better treatment. I wish a doc would help me with lupus I feel worthless cause I can't do anything but what im doing now. Thank y'all for anything you can do and may god bless you.