a little goes a long way

Hi,

It feels very downgrading and embarrassing for me as a parent to ask strangers especially for help with money or food for my kids, but because i am one of those mothers that will feel very guilty if i cannot provide for my kids on special milestones in their lives and this is the reason i have come to ask for help.
...I will get straight to the point with just being honest and saying that i dont have any bad or terrible stories or lies to help me raise money.
today im asking for help so that i can raise some extra money to help me plan an 18th birthday picnic or party for my daughter on 16 april 2019.Her name is Zaib.I am a single mother to 2 kids, unemployed for 2 years now and i can barely afford groceries for a month. we dont consume any alcohol or drugs so when i say party i mean a small lunch or pinic in 1 of cape towns gardens or beaches for her 18th birthday because we are very down to earth and dont do well with elaborate parties or events so a picnic/lunch is all im asking help with.
Please help me to give my daughter a descent 18th birthday.
I thank you in advance.