For helping with my wedding money gift

Hello everybody, have a good day.

I am Arthur from China, 30 years old. In Chinese traditon, we should working hard to earn money for getting married, because it costs a lot to buy a new house, money gifts to bride's family and so on. I was working at Shenzhen city since 2013 to 2017 after my graduation. Last year, 2017, I met my girlfriend in my hometown and now we are ready for marriage. But the money gifts to brides's family burdens me deeply. In the countryside of my hometown, it requires a big sum of money, 200,000 RMB, for that. Now I am working at my hometown and the salary in this small city is very little, about 30,000RMB a year. I and my girlfriend plan to have the wedding at Octorber, while I don't know how to work out the money gifts. Please kindly give me a hand to carry through this difficulty, I don't want to lose my girlfriend, thank you all for your favors.

My personal email is [email protected], if possible, you can email me, I will keep updating you via email or by here.

Thank you so much.