I've met Memey on August 2014 at my workplace. She was a very decent, polite, and beautiful person that captured my heart.
The next 3 months, i made my move and start dating her. Lucky for me that she accepted my feelings for her. Throught our relationship, we felt compatible with each other. We're always take care with each other. Every day the the love grew stronger. Now we're getting marry.
Sometimes life is not as beautiful as a fairy tale. Everything does not seems to be easy as it should be. I'm Malaysian and she's Indonesian. Two neighboring country which are differ in tradition and also perception of its people about each other. I'm more to melayu tradition and she's more to javanese tradition.
When the first time i told my family that i want to marry her, the answer is no. Its break my heart. Just imagine that you love somebody really hard and yet you cant be with them. I know the answer why i cant marry with her. Its because of peoples perception. Its not fair when you judges a book by its cover.
For me, we are the same. Altough our colors, our language, our culture and tradition are different. we all have feelings, emotions and the need of each other. That's which made us human. We are the same. Everyday i kept explaining my family about rather than looking for different we should looking for similarities. Why we need to act like the negative netizen of the two country that always arguing and hating each other. We should be peace together. Unite together.
I just cant give up on my love just because of a dumb reason. I want to correct my family perceptions. I want to show that this is not a country or races problem. It's an individual problem. It's not fair if a person is not good, you blame the country, you blame the peoples.
Altough my love and i got many difference. We're more focus on similarities. We love each other, we want to get old together and we want to be with each other till death put us apart. Its our life, its our future. So its depend on us how we shape the future.
Now im succeed on correcting my family perception. They more likely to accept my love and getting know with her family. I felt so happy. Because of this tiny act that im doing its just like bringing two country back together. I hope with our marriage it will inspired other peoples out there. Don't give up on what you want, what you dreams of. It just need an effort.
We will getting marry on 7 July 2019. I need a little help from whom may concern. I'm a little bit short of fund. I want to bring my family to Indonesia. To attend our wedding there. A little help will be grateful for us. Thank you so much for those who may concern with us.
Thank You Very Much, Sincerely Anwar&Memey.....