In need of a house

hmm i don't know where to start. In 2010 I moved to Vietnam to start a new life after many accidents in the Netherlands. I got married and now have 3 daughters. We came back to the Netherlands for the children, so they could get a good education in the Netherlands. Now we are struggling to get a house. I work, but the crazy demands of real estate offices I can't forfill. I'm looking for someone to take a loan. But haven't succeeded yet. I can pay back with interest. Maybe I will find someone here and my 3 little girls don't have to suffer anymore and exchange schools all the time.