Helping the helpless unemployed lover to help with financial support.

I love two people, four years crossed, the full name of the girl Sanjida Majumder Rafi, I adore Rafi, and Rafi always told me that if someone had to marry then I would do this and keep my whole life alive on my chest , Rafi almost always told me to flee and get married because his family was very influential, agreeing to marry a poor boy like me. I will not be able to get away from me, but I can not get married in the absence of now I am very unemployed, how will I keep Rafi happy? Please help us, please.