help for my family

hi sir or madam.I was a poor man.worked for 12years in Kuwait city. I was a driver of a house. the salary was very low.9members in our family. the pay was very low even after that.but at this time Kuwait police sent me to my country without any crime. anyway I went to the city of Qatar again. but how do I run the cost of 9people. the expenses of the family two.and how I run the cost of the other seven. but I do not agree with my employer.but he want to pay me little bit less.I have crossed 30years of age.I even married. now the family is above the debt.I do not understand what I do.