I am a father who loves his two sons (7 and 10 years old) and does everything for them.
I am a man who has done everything for the relationship with his wife.
I am a boss who has neglected the company for the benefit of his family.
Our marriage corresponded to all ideals of an equal marriage as propagated by modern feminists.
I am now a single man whose wife and mother of my sons could not appreciate all this.
She missed the emotional connection through deep conversations.
That was actually all she could tell me when she said she felt so unfulfilled and now has to realize it somewhere else.
Well, you can't have everything. Let us calculate:
Man: More time spent with the children.
Man and woman both work (the same amount).
Man: should have deep conversations and take care of the relationship.
Woman: complains in relationship about man, does nothing herself for it.Something doesn't fit, does it?
My goals: To be an even better father. To be there for the children whenever they need it. To be a full-time father and leave all the compulsion for job and relationship behind me. For at least 5 years, without any obligations towards anyone - except my children.
$100,000, so that two children can experience that there are fathers who are not interested in career and fame, but who have so far been torn apart between claiming in marriage, earning resources, equal rights without fairness, and expecting to be responsive and stable as a father.
Help me to be this father. I want to give stability to my sons. Financially but especially emotionally. Equality must work in both directions. In our case, it was not enough for me to throw everything into the balance. In order not to make this mistake again and to be an independent father who can give his children real values like reliability, honesty, courage, strength and confidence, I ask you men to give me 5 years of this independence.
Please understand that I am running this campaign anonymously. I want to avoid feminist shitstorms with possible consequences for the children.
Also just to state this out: I am NOT against feminism and strong women. But I am against it if it is used as an argument for actual inequality. Women and Men are equal. And thats fact from all perspectives!