L.M. Foundation - Sharing the importance of Domestic Violence Prevention
Help L.M. Foundation Build the Aspiration House- This is a temporary home for survivors of domestic violence.
Our Goal is to Raise $90,000.00
We Can't Do It without you!! Will you help!!
KNOW THE SIGNS:
Domestic violence can take different forms, but its purpose is always the same: Abusers want to control their domestic partners through fear. They do this by abusing them physically, sexually, psychologically, verbally, and economically.*Domestic Violence does not only apply to women and children. Men are often abused by their partner.*Physical Abuse:Hitting, Slapping, Kicking, Choking, Pushing, Punching, BeatingVerbal Abuse:Constant criticism, Mocking, Making humiliating remarks, Yelling, Swearing, Name-calling, InterruptingSexual Abuse:Forcing sex on an unwilling partner; Demanding sexual acts that the victim does not want to perform; Degrading treatmentIsolation: Making it hard for the victim to see friends and relatives, Monitoring phone calls, Reading mail, Controlling where the victim goes, Taking the victim’s car keys, Destroying the victim’s passportCoercion: Making the victim feel guilty, Sulking, Manipulating children and other family members; Always insisting on being right; Making up impossible rules and punishing the victim for breaking them• Harassment: Following or stalking, Embarrassing the victim in public, Constantly checking up on the victim, Refusing to leave when asked
Economic Control: Not paying bills, Refusing to give the victim money, Not letting the victim work, Interfering with the victim’s job; Prohibiting the victim from going to school; Not allowing the ,victim to learn a job skill; Refusing to work and support the familyAbusing Trust: Lying, Breaking promises, Withholding important information, Being unfaithful, Being overly jealous, Not sharing domestic responsibilitiesThreats and Intimidation: Threatening to harm the victim, the children, family members and pets,Using physical size to intimidate, Shouting, Keeping weapons and threatening to use them
Emotional Withholding: Not expressing feelings, Not giving compliments, Not paying attention, Not respecting the victim’s feelings, rights and opinions, Not taking the victim’s concerns seriouslyDestruction of Property: Destroying furniture, Punching walls, Throwing or breaking things, Abusing petsSelf-Destructive Behaviors: Abusing drugs or alcohol, Threatening self-harm or suicide, Driving recklessly, Deliberately doing things that will cause troubleThank you for your continued support!!