I TRY AND HELP EVERYONE AND I AM DOING ALL I CAN BUT EVERY DIME THAT IS DONATED GOES TO THE WEDDING. That is the cake, caterer, photographer, decorations, and the supplies needed for wedding such as plates, cups, silverware, and other utensils. This really is for a good cause if you don't want to donate money I will gladly accept items for the wedding. We are doing everything we can on a 733.00 check a month which doesn't even cover all our bills