Good evening everyone.
I came here out of desperation as there are so many people in more need than me but I am completely out of ideas or options.
A couple of months back I lost my job due to retrenchment and right after we found out my wife was pregnant. She did not want another baby as she has had 2 very bad and difficult births already.
She is a wonderful and loving mother and wife and really tries her best but she lies and cries in the evening when she thinks we are all asleep as she has fear of this birth. She was on for medication for preeclampsia but the money we saved has dried up and so I started a fund me for the medication and doctor visits. It has already been a week that she hasn't had her medication and I am really starting to worry. The rest of the money will go to doctors visits and scans as we have not had scans yet. We calculated that the due date is somewhere in October. The fund me will be updated with information as soon as we find out.
The government hospitals and doctors in my country is not any good, we live in South Africa.
I have been for many interviews but nothing seems to work out on that side as well. Been doing odd jobs here and there but the income generated from that is just not enough for the medical expenses.
I do not know what to do anymore because I feel the baby and my wife is suffering because of me and the only thing that is currently keeping me going is my baby girl.
We cannot go to our family as they all have written us off because of me losing my job and unable to find one again so soon.
If you feel it worth assisting I would be ever so grateful.