Woman in Need
I have met this woman about 24 month's ago...she used to work with me..and her age is 60 yrs. After a few months she had confidence to tell me about herself. It is her 2nd marriage and she divorced the 1st husband due to physical abuse and left with 3 children . They all are married now with their own children .The 2nd husband(12 years her junior) were started to physical abuse her as well for 6 years after marriage...they have 2 x children ...a girl(18) and the son is(17)..after reported it to police she withdraw ...and then the emotional abuse started(accursed ,chased from home (12 x in 24 months) what i definitely know about , calling her vulgar names etc.She then go to one of her children but go back every time for the 2 x kids she could not take with. The children (from previous marriage ) also stay in flats which make it impossible for her to take the 2 x kids with....i am not a psychologist but i did meet with him on several occasions and tell that this guy is a psyche....He deny every time that he did this..
He is allowing himself to have friends but she is not allowed to have any friends .
When at home , she is not allowed to leave the house or visit her children or grandchildren from previous marriage. The husband do not believe in gifts for Christmas or birthdays .
Since she started working (14 months ago to try and better herself) , she have to give all her money to this husband..she is not even allowed to spend anything on herself or the kids...he is taking everything and controlling her account.. She is very neglect and i do feel a need to try and help this woman.
She would like to leave this circumstances but got nowhere to go. I do help where possible but it all have to be in secrecy...
I would use the funds to rent a flat for her and the 2 x kids for a period of 8 to 10 months , food , clothing and to gain self-respect.
I am busy with a business proposal which will be about in the same time frame and then i could help her with a job from there. For people finding jobs at this age is practically impossible .
I will be very grateful if funds could be available as soon as possible so that i could help this woman to a better life and experience what life should be about without humiliation..
The support from donors will be unbelievable supportive to me to try and help this women to gain her self-respect in life and will help me to gain time to help her and escape the abusiveness she have to experience and to be what a mother should be to children and what a grandmother should be to grandchildren..
If it is possible , i would like to thank every donor with a personal e-mail to show my gratefulness.