Wishing for a Special Day

My fiancee' Sean and I have been together for 3 years and we wish to be married.  Our financial situation is a bit complicated as we have one child together and each of us have one on our own.  I am currently a stay at home mom caring for our infant and Sean works full-time. We nor our parents have the means to pay for a wedding for us so if we want one we have to do it ourselves.  He worked extremely hard to buy my engagement ring and now wants to start on our wedding.  The truth is I will marry him without a wedding because I love him but because he knows how much it will mean to me to have a wedding he's trying his all to be able to pay for one.  I ran across this site today and figured I would give it a try.  Anything at all would be a blessing!