Wedding help. Please? (:

So, I am trying to get married to my perfect man. I would like to have had the money to pay for my wedding but it doesn't seem possible. The money I had for the dress ended up going toward my car when that broke down. I do have a job but the hours aren't that great. I am working on getting another job but that might take awhile. 

I would also love for my family to be there but they are in another state and can't afford the cost. I would love for them to be there.

anything would be a blessing.