Wedding after job loss

We had our dream wedding all planned, we where going to elope to Eleuthera, Bahamas. I saved and payed the plane tickets, and half the house (from homeaway.com). I was a caregiver for my 99 year old grandmother Monica who had dementia and cared for my 1 year old. Monica caught pneumonia a few days after Thanksgiving 2013 and passed away in a hospital on December 6, 2013. I lost my Grandmother and to top it off, I lost my job taking care of her. I am looking for a job but it appears to some employers like I've been unemployed since I had been staying home with My Grandma. I am running out of time to pay for the trip and am afraid I may not be able to get a job, catch up on our bills, and pay for the rest of the trip. I'm so afraid the tickets and money will go to waste. Our wedding is April 14, 2014 and we are to leave April 11, 2014. The homeaway home owner wants the rental to be payed by early March 2014, we also need a rental car for the week. Any donations would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all soo much!