Wedding

Myself and future wife to be have been together for 16 years.we have 4 children all under the age of 13.we are getting married in august 2018 and we have paid for our venue and church but need funds to help us pay of the rest of the wedding which we estimate around £4000.this is not the exact figure and it is more than this figure but i would not want to ask for the rest of the £2000 as i feel it would be unjust to not try and do it ourselves.we both have jobs that can be demanding at times and we have to fit this around our family life which we sometimes find it a struggle.we have tried twice before to get married but we had to cancel as we could not afford it.we lost a total of £600 we put down as a deposit for a venue.thank you so much for your time reading this.