My name is Patrick and I have been with my partner for 6 years and we have a 9 month old baby together. For the last three years we have been trying to save money for a wedding. I have ehlersdanlos syndrome which is detoriating faster than we hoped and I am now wheelchair bound. Our small wedding fund has been spent on mobility equipment. i don't like asking for help but i just want our family to be complete. I feel really guilty that my partner has to give up all her time to care for me and our son. She has had to quit her job which she loved because we can't afford a carer and nursery. She worked really hard to save up the little money we did have for a wedding fund which had to be spent on me for equipment. Even if we just manage to raise a few pound it would help a lot and it would mean everything to us. Thank you for taking the time to read this.