We need your Help!!!!

Me and my fiancee are in need of help.  We had just got engaged on the 25th of December and would like to get married soon.  I know that this is a little bit of a push with the economy being the way that it is.   A little about myself: I am a 33 year old Iraqi war veteran that has done 3 tours during operation Iraqi Freedom and was released due to having PTSD.  When I was released I became determined to become successful at overcoming my sickness.  To get my mind off of the suffering I enrolled myself in college and graduated with my degree in IT.   My fiancee: She is a 24 year old recent graduate from Rutgers University with a bachelors degree in Psychology.  Ever since her graduation she has been involved in many agencies dealing with helping people with mental disabilities to get employment regardless of their situation. We now live in Texas and are trying to have out wedding in New Jersey so that all of our families can attend this joyous occasion.  We have fallen on rough times as my mother is unable to contribute because she was recently diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer for the second time in 3 years.   I am ashamed to ask for help from strangers but I just wanted to make sure that my mother gets to see me get married before anything happens