Hi my name is Stacy and I am a 27 year old single mother of 2 disabled children Brianna age 4, Devin age 8.
After having my son,I wanted the best for us so I went to school to become a nurse, graduated, got my dream job,but shortly after I ended up in a abrusive relationship and my health starting going down hill and I became sick and had to have emergency intestinal surgery because they shut down,and the doctor said that if I would not have came in when I did I would not have lived till the end of the year(it was only two more months of that year).So that situation led me to not been able to work due to my health getting worse(similar to chrones diesase)and shortly later having my daughter (Brianna) which was born with spinal bifida, which calls for alot of doctor visits,surgeries,etc. so I had to give my career up and become a stay at home mom.So I now have a child with severe speech delay and adhd (Devin) and a child with spinal bifida,and my on and off stomach issues,....now I love my children so much and they mean the world to me! :) But doing all of this on my own is a struggle at times,now my parents helped me as much as they could but my abuser would not leave us alone even after I left him and the cops could not protect us ,so my family in Tn suggested that we come stay with them and split costs,etc. and they could help me with the kids so I saved up and moved up here only to find out they were struggling financilly. And after spending all my money coming up here they was up set that I didn't have any money to give them to catch up on there debts that I was unaware of so they kicked me and my disabled kids out in less then 3 days of being up here.So here we were stuck in a new state with no money,no house,no more relatives,NOTHING but us and our clothes because I did not have enough funds to bring my furniture on the trip up.Finally after being in homeless shelters, etc. I was able to get a place to stay up here,... but now my health has went down hill drasticly,.....I have begun to be sick again,.... every week back and forward to the ER only to find out they see a mass on my vein leading to my ovarie which I am in process of making sure its not cancerous but my doctor highly suggests that I need to get back around family so they can help me out because they don't know for sure how long I am going to be like this because they can't pin point whats causing me to also have servere pain and vomiting etc. every week Plus to make things worst,.....my daughter did testing and found out she has to have surgery again(shes only 4) in order to not have bladder and kidney failure they have to work on her bladder and they have decided to do intestinal surgury also at the same time so she can hopefully get out of pull ups etc. They are going to take a piece of her intestant and put it on her bladder and some other things she will be in hospital for a couple of weeks and recorvery for awhile afterwards. With all of this going on I need help/support.My goal is to get up funds to move back to florida where rest of my family is(mom,dad,uncle,grandma,etc.)before the surgury so we can just do it down there and I can have help for me and my kids. Also I can see the specialist that I was seeing prior to moving to hopfully get myself back right,....because for some reason my insurance in tn wont cover to see one up here so I just been sick and suffering besides what the ER has access with doing.The funds would be for moving exspences(moving company,gas,etc.),paying to get into a place in florida, help with medical expenses that my insurance is not covering. Any little bit will help As we have NO ONE to help us and I am just to sick to do any side work.Everyday I pray that we get back to our family,....we need them,I feel so alone scared and helpless right now. Please help us out.