The more we try to save the more bills and or problems appear. My whole life I have dreamt of a wedding, and now that I found my dream man and had our amazing daughter, I felt like our lives were set and the time was perfect. As we booked our venue the problems began. First the car broke down, then his mom got laid off , then his ex placed his son in a 100,000 a year school in which he has to come up with 10000 from his pocket and to make matters worst every day something new breaks down in our home. I'm starting to feel like maybe getting married isn't a dream we could achieve.