Nothing in the world knowing you are with the right person. When your mind, body and souls are connected in the most amazing way. Its the thing that most people search for, seldom find and settle for less.
I believe that I have fund such a person and here is our story:
CJ is from the UK - she came to SA to help out at a local NGO that asisted youngsters in the community in Gonubie. We met when she moved into a commune I was running. No, there was no love at first sight and any of that, quite the opposite. As I was currently in a relationship, I was hardly at the house so we didnt actually spend much time together. We started hosting small braais and dinners at the house and slowly we became friends and there were small sparks forming. To cut to the chase, I later broke up with my current girlfirend and I stayed home a lot more and CJ and I became friends with an ever growing attraction between us. As she was going back to the UK, to renew her VISA, the timiing wasnt right to do anything in my mind but the tension was real.
So, last night before CJ returned home, we had a few farewell drinks at home and then later went out. With an early start for me, 4:30am, I had to leave the party. CJ walked me to the car to say farewell and we finally kissed - the best kiss ever! That was the start of a relationship that would change my life forever!
With CJ back at home and applying for VISAs, the government was busy, once again changing the law regarding VISA renewals etc, making this job more impossible than ever and extending our searation even more.
Through the wonders of technology, we managed to stay in really close to one another by using Facetime and Whatsapp. We spent loads of time chatting and once I had a good ADSL connection at home, we lived on Facetime. This solidfied our relationship and we started to fall head over heal in love.
Upon her much anticiapted return to SA, I fetched her from the airport and the rest was something from a dream!
With all this said - we are no longer together, CJ is in the UK and I here in SA. over 2 years have passed and I have tried being in a relationship but it can never compare to level that CJ and I had. Our connection is still incredible, we feel each other even over such great distances.
So why am I not with her? Thats the catch... I am broke as, and I am appealing to you to help unite two people that belong together.