True love combining a family

Hi my name is justina I have 3 amazing children and two amazing stepsons about 3 years ago I meet the love of my life the man that saved me and I saved him both single parents and both will children who parents bailed for me it was a struggle having a autistic son I worked a lot and did the best I could to take care of my children and so did he last year we were gonna get married October 15 2016 but we pushed the wedding back one more year due to getting screwed by the person who was supposed to finish my fiancée house so we could all move in so we were finally able to move in this past July but then within a month I lost my job due to having to be home more with my son and so did he bc of things going on at home so he was out of work for 2 months and then got a job but took a huge cut and now financially we are struggling and we still owe on our wedding so now I'm asking for help which I neve do but this is the one thing I want to do for myself considering all the sacrifices I have made for others it means more to me then anything to have this day with him and even though we're struggling now I haven't lost hope that I will still have my day in all of this