tragic life for a Mother and surving boys

This mother suffered great loss. She lost both parents at a young age as well as a sister. Then in 2000 she was pregnant with twins as she got a call that while visiting his father her 3 year old son was killed in a house fire. wendy had to be taken from Tuckers bedside due to miscarriage. the pain and grief caused the death of one of the unborn babys . Her life would only get worse. Wendy suffered from depression anxiety and ptsd. Her pain doesnt end there. In 2012 her first born son Mikey was struck by a drunk driver as he walked home from celebratng his 21st birthday. She has never been the same. She had lost so much. She had to quit her jobs and be put on disability. She suffers from flashbacks anxiety and depression. its hard for her to even leave the house. She has two surviving children that are grieving the loss of they're brothers. They are living with they're fathers two hours away. Wendy doesnt have a car so seeing them is hard to schedule she lives in a tiny shack of a apartment its actually just a room due to only receiving under 900.00 a month which makes it harder to have her boys visit her on a regular basis she hardly makes ends meet but she supports her boys as best she can. Her love for family is what keeps her going . She is the strongest women i know. she doesnt see it though .she smiles through the pain and is working with dvr to retrain for a new career. She never gives up and wants to get back on her feet and be with her kids. Christmas is the hardest time for her and her kids she often cries herself to sleep at night she cries for Tucker and Mikey but she also cries for her other boys Hunter and Zachary who wont get the gifts she wants to give them and i see it break her heart each year. Life has broken this women and somehow she wakes up everyday and trys again . nothing ever seems to get easier. She is in counseling and has created a group for parents who lost children and wants to help others. i often wonder how she does it. She told me if telling her story of her oldest sons death and the dangers of drinking and driving can save even one life then he didnt die in vain and if she can help other parents then she succeeded in something. She owes over 7 grand to the funeral home and after four years she was able to buy mikeys headstone. She has nothing but always is the first to help others. i am hoping to help her and her kids. Will you help make Christmas a happy one