tmj dental funding

i have tmj and it is worsening. i have broken several of my teeth. i have lost my job because the military cleaning contract job has ended. no one will hire me with the way i look. i am in pain everyday. my teeth are literally cutting into my lips. i have tried to find low cost dental help for the last year. but by not being able to work i cant find any help. i just want to be able to eat and talk without being made fun of. my biggest and only wish is to fix my mouth and get a job. this is really hard for me to ask for help because i have been told by so many that this is my fault that i am poor because i am too lazy to do better. no one deserves this kind of pain. thank you for your time.