South Africa NEEDS HELP!!!
We NEED YOUR HELP!!!
I NEED YOUR HELP!!!
I go to sleep every night, and listen to what has become my lullaby at night. The sound of gunshots raining down somewhere in the not very far distance. It is no more about that fact that this is happening in disadvantaged areas only, it is happening all over in SA.
For some reason, as Women's Day 2018 approached, something happened in the Western Cape in South Africa specifically.
Women and children were been attacked, raped and killed and dropping like flies.
For months there was a cry out, that seemed to have reached worldwide attention, but like the previous 3 years... It eventually dies down.
Why you may ask?
Well sadly between the escalating standards of living, water crisis, electric crisis, and a corrupt government, we constantly have to juggle what needs our attention most on a given day.
For example, when it's load-shedding in the bad areas, it means having to stress about your safety even more than the other days. Electricity off means party time for the gangsters and criminal elements.
A government that seems quite content playing off the evils of the past in order to insight ill feelings, to scratch, open the wounds that are still very raw even 20 odd years after democracy.
Also, we seemed to have raised a nation of powerful women, but sadly what this achievement means to our female youth, and to our males......
No one thought of teaching our males how to deal with this, how to change their old belief systems, To see us as equals or helpmates and not as threats, objects or possessions.
This is outside of all the other senseless crimes.
In the last year, I had to move to one of the most dangerous areas in the Western Cape. I soon learned that EDUCATION is gravely needed. I soon understood that there was much validity to what a lack of role models and education results in....
What do I mean by this?
Regardless of religion or race, people need to understand that the fundamentals remain the same.
Education is needed as to how to be a man, a father, a husband a brother.
Educations is needed on how to be a woman, a mother, a wife, a sister
Education is needed on how to be loyal and loving siblings
Education is needed on how to RESPECT ONE ANOTHER.
Education is needed for our CHILDREN to learn to DREAM BIG
Education is needed to teach others, that there is more to this life than what they see about the Gangsters, Drugs and killings in their areas.
Education is needed to remember traditions and not be taken in by social media.
We are presently a NATION THAT IS VERY BROKEN, AND NEEDS HELP!!
SO HOW DO WE DO THIS?
The first week of October 2019, I and other members of my team (now part of my team) met a gentleman called Arfeen Khan.
Have you heard of Tony Robbins, known to most as the "guru" of Life coaching, Well let's call Arfeen the "Indian Tony Robbins" lol.
This man, along with his team, saw what was happening in South Africa, and saw the need there was and is for people to become healers. Unlike others, he PERSONALLY came down to meet with us that are hungry and want to be part of his organisation, but more importantly, to be PART OF THE SOLUTION.
I have seen first hand the results of Arfeen Khan team. As a Life coach and Neuro-Linguistic Program Practitioner, I thought I knew it all. What more could he teach me???? My oh my was I surprised!!
SA needs healing. Unlike others, he knew the healing needed to come from our own. We are after all the ones that understand the darkness and the challenges and can relate.
Arfeen has called for all that are presently Life coaches or are willing to make a difference and want to make a change by becoming a Life coach.
He also understood the financial challenges we are facing here in South Africa. What might seem like peanuts to some, is another man's millions so to speak. He has brought a program that would normally cost thousands of pounds to a reasonable amount in Rands.
While we are extremely appreciative of this, someone us do need help in order to fulfill our calling, our purpose here on this earth to heal and make whole.
PLEASE NOTE: This is not merely a training program, and once completed we left to our own devices. Once complete, we have two choices:
1. Take what we have learned and open up or continue our own business; or
2. Become part of the organization that helps us to be more effective Coaches, while working for the organization in away.
What are mine and my team's aims/goals?
We want to become Life Coaches that NEVER HAS TO TURN ANYONE AWAY!!!
There one thing that most of us life coaches realized was that we all broke.
We have a desire and drive to heal and help, especially in our communities, but we need to survive and live and are barely getting by.
Firstly we intend staying with the Organization, coaching and training others.
This way, as the organization provides us with paid clients, workshops, etc, we are able to make plans to do the work we want within our communities and know that we can afford to do.
Athlone, Mitchell's Plain, Delft, Hanover Park, Manneberg etc, these are just a few where we can start with the schools, both primary and secondary, and also look at having community workshops for the adults...
We want to be LIFESAVERS, SUPERHEREOS, BUT not only to our paying clients.
So while at present our request is to assist 5 of us, I'm hoping that we can do continuous funding for people like me that really want to make a change but need that helping hand, that miracle, that faith from someone who sees the potential.
At any given point, I will be more than happy to update anyone who makes a request wanting to know where the kindness is going to, and what the team has achieved.
Please see the following link to give you insight into the Arfeen Khan Organisation, or if you feel that you want to explore the Coaching or Speaker avenues.
We thank you in advance for your time and generosity.
You have no idea the great investment you are putting into us, and we are extremely grateful.