Surgery 6 months prematurely baby

Hello,i am Andreea from Romania ,28 years.Six months ago I gave birth to a boy at 31 weeks with 1300 kilograms

has gone through two infections and many antibiotics

I spent half a month with him in the hospital. A half month in which my soul died 1000 times.But finally I got home with God's help, my baby Eric Gabriel is fine.

He is healthy and he recovered well but because of antibiotics he had problems from the beginning in doing poop without suppositories or enema. During hospitalization he suffered a lot because of this and made inguinal hernia. and the Iron that he takes as an anemia treatment and the lack of iron in the body has aggravated his problem with his belly because the Iron made him constipate and scream very hard. I decided not to operate him yet, he had gone through enough,

Until last month, the hernia was under control ,But surgery can not wait anymore. I have two options, to operate at a state hospital or a private hospital specializing in hernia intervention. Is my first child( and unfortunately, the only one, I do not have the courage to make another baby,but i would like to adopt one) and I would do anything to give the best for him and his health but i can't afford it.After now I have made many sacrifices to make almost all the controls to private clinics. I bought some vaccines, plus every month until the age of 2, the doctor must see him, and I decided to pay a private neonatologist, every month $ 50. Maybe you're wondering why I'm running out of state hospitals, because in Romania the state hospitals are poor and dirty, full of infections, you have a good chance to go with an infection from there and even so, you are treated ugly and without interest by nurses, doctors unless you give them how much they ask, so you still need money if you want to know for sure that the doctor will receive you and do a good job.Is easy to find if is true or not what am I saying now ,just ask google about hospital in Romania. https://www.reginamaria.ro/we-are-largest-private-health-care-network-romania. This is the private hospital where I spoke, They did not tell me a final price, they said it would cost me somewhere around the sum of 1500 euros, with my hospitalization included, even if my baby only stayed for 2 days in the hospital I could not leave him alone.Is the first time when i ask help from someone, especially on the internet,i feel strange and ashamed because i don't know if are peoaple in this word who help you and who simply believe you.I can prove all is true with all is need.I appreciate any help, and if you need me, I'm here for you.If you want find more details and proves just ask me.Thank you for all.Wish all the best and the most important is a good health.