When I met my husband Tinus for the first time, he was so excited about having his own children.
His kindness, passion for life smile and the way he bonded with my son totally stole my heart. We got married the day before valentines day in 2016 My husband is my knight in shining armor.
Our rock, my love, my soul mate, my best friend.
I have a son from a previous relationship. He is 8 years old turning 9 in November 2017. My son's father ran away, stopped paying child support and has no contact whatsoever with him. He is not part of his life at all. My son did not know what a father does, how he loves etc until he met Tinus. Tinus is here everyday. He is the best dad. And he is loved by " our son".
Exited about the future and having kids, we started our life together.
Tinus loves baby's. When he sees a baby, he completely becomes "gaga". From across the room he can make eye contact with a baby and the baby's an he will have a conversation with hand gestures etc. I have never in my life seen any man so ready to have a child.
We found out 13/10/2017, Friday that we where pregnant. We were so excited. Our son already said its going to be a girl and started thinking about names. He said he will be the best big brother. Tinus was glowing with pride, the excitement oozing from his face.
Saturday 14/10/2017 I have been admitted to hospital. We had an ectopic pregnancy. This was my 2nd ectopic pregnancy. I have never felt so hopeless. My husband hiding his tears, trying to make me feel better. I had the emergency operation to remove the pregnancy and my only remaining tube.
We have lost our only natural chance for having a baby. We are broken. The clock is ticking and we are not getting younger. What do we do.
The doctor came in to see us on Sunday to speak to us about the options we have.
When she said we can do In Vitro Fertilization, I saw light in my husband's eye's, I saw hope. The feeling of still having this chance to have a baby.
As you all know, In Vitro Fertilization is really expensive. And it might not take the first time.
We need your help. Please help us to make this family complete. For my husband en me to be parents again and for "our" son the be a Big Brother.
Lots of love....