As the only child in my family as my husband as well, I know how difficult it can bee, to be alone.
When I was six, my father died in an accident. I stayed alone to take care of my sick mother. She died soon. I finihed my school, find a job as a kindergartner teacher and when I was 23 I met my husband. Since then my live became much better cause I was not alone any more. I have three children. We live in a small town and everything I do, I do for my family. My husband also. We both work, but our monthly salaries are just about 400$, per each. In complexity and understanding we managed our LIFE successfully. We were happy!
Last year, before my son was born, we had to rearrange our house for the fifth member of our family. We spent all our savings but works costed more then we expected and we had to borrow money from the bank. We never borrowed money from the bank before. We never borrowed money from anybody. But things were not as we supposed. Now we are in financial problem. My husband had to find a second job, bit it is not enaugh. I see than he is suffering, but because of kids and me he is trying not to show that. I love him very much and I want to help him. My oldest daughter is eight years old and she sees that something is wrong. This is esspecialy difficult for me. We did not spent one singl dolar on to of us since then, but we are five members family, family with three kids and we can not pay instalments any more.
All we need is 5000 $ to repay our loan to the bank and to continue to live our lifes happy, as we did before. It is not too much, but for my family it is not just a money. It is smile on my husband face again, it is my optimism to go further and it is much better childhood for my kids. That is why, at this moment, this money it a fortune for us.
It is silly to say, because in humanity there is no "in return", but I am very fond of starting a couseling session of how to make a happy family in small country in the center of Europe, where average sallary is 400 $. That with financial discipline and responsibility it is possible to have more than one kid, have organic and healty food, join a digital revolution and have enaugh for kid's education. At the end, but not the last important thing, money is not everything. Love, commitment, understanding and support each other, especialy man and wife are most important for one family and the kids are the real wealth and it is worth for investment.