Starting Over

I've always had a pretty crazy life. Admittingly, some of this chaos stems directly from my own actions and choices. However, there is a good deal of trouble that I had no control over, and no significant influence over. The most recent chain of events began with my now ex-fiance's decisions. The first hurtful choice was to demonstrate emotional abuse toward me. He constantly put me down, called me vulgar names, manipulated my money and controller my social and work life. But being the loyal lover I am, I stood by him regardless. Then he cheated on me while I was away. He slept with his ex in my bed, in the house my money paid rent in. There were countless other instances where he instigated and participated in highly promiscuous conversations, although I never knew if it was more than talk. When I found out about the infidelity with his ex, I confronted him which landed several fists upon my own body. He busted my lips, broke 2 ribs and my nose and gave me a concussion. When I finally got away from him, I went to my elderly great uncle's in a different state, but I lost everything I owned. And because both of our names were on the lease, and his name was on the utilities, I wouldn't have much success making him leave. This took place on April 25, 2019. My old uncle's been quite kind to me. I was offered the opportunity to work on his beautiful 5+ acre lot. Of course it's full of overgrown flower beds and gardens. The agreement is that re-beautification and then regular maintenance of the property would be my payment for his provision of room and board to me. However, I have no personal hygiene items, no clothes, no shoes, bedding, no personal items whatsoever now. I filed a police report, of course and was told that because of the distance between that house and my uncle crossing state lines, there would be a significant amount of time to deal with retrieving my things. Like up to 6 months or a year of waiting! So in a state of emergency, I went to Google, which led me to this site. I'm running out of ideas and options. Yet, all things considered, I'm remaining hopeful. If you have it within your means and heart to help me with ANYTHING, I would be grateful forever!