single mother in need

On sept.11 2013 i was 11weeks pregnant when me and my now ex boyfriend were told our baby had no heart beat the earliest it could be removed was 4 days later we both were devasted by the news and 3nights later we got into a heated argument that led to physical fighting i was arrested that night and was not allowed to be released from jail untill the next afternoon so i missed the operation to have the baby removed that morning.. i miscarried the baby the next day i have never gotten violent with anyone I'm actually a sweet and caring person and now i have domestic violence charge and court fines and lost a child in the process I'm raising a 17 month old on my own I'm very protective of him he is my world and i really hope I'm not ripped apart from him on November 18th to spend more time in jail because of court fines that i am unable to pay please help me!