Single Mom in Debt Overnight

Hello everybody,

I am sure that you are busy with your own life yet I dare to kindly ask for your help and support. FIrst of all let me say that I never ever imagined that I will end up by asking people to help me with money. I always struggled by myself and did the best I could for me and my daughter. It seems that today is the day when I am not enough anymore. A regular person is never enough when we talk about 20.000 euros.

The story is just one of many love stories of a young girl falling in love-getting married-giving birth-being abandoned-becoming single mom at 23.I am proud of being a mom and raising a gorgeous young little lady. My husband left when our daughter was as little as 3 weeks old. He set up the divorce papers and never came back. By that time we were in the beautiful country of Norway. The state of Norway paid on behalf of the missing father until now when all of a sudden sent me a letter that I have to give back to the state the money I received as child support. I contacted a lawyer and I still HAVE TO PAY FIRST and then I can go in court. In Norway is this way. You do not mess with the state, right or wrong, pay or jail.

I have nothing of my own I can sell, I live with rent in a small flat.My mother is mentally ill(dementia and narcissism) and father is retired. The bank will not lend me the money because I do not fit their income rules.I have no social life therefore no friends to ask for help. And even if I had friends would be also poor because poor hang with the poor and rich with the rich.

Any help is welcome and treasured, please help me to keep raising my daughter and stay out of jail.