I am a single mother with a young 5yrs old daughter, we have been moving form places to another because we don't have the lots of money to purchase a house. So we do not have any choice but we can either rental room from the open market or I will try to call friends for help..
But all these only can last for short period only.
My earning is also not enough to let me to rent a room when the rental is so expensive, when it easily cost from $600 to $2000 per Mth for 2 person and these owner require 2 mth rental and 1 mth rental to pay upfront first.
My daughter preschool school fees and expenses is also a headache for me. The total amount spend for her everything in, can easily cost me around minium a $1K or more and this amt didn't include the medical fees for my ger. Her medical fees for a GP is around estimate minimal amt $50 to $100 plus minus.
Like those old people once told me, you can die but not sick..
My life was nearly perfect together but sadly I was too blinded by love and married to a abusive man.. Who used to be a very sweet and caring person. He became another person, whom I don't recognise at all.
we were in the midst of preparing our marriage, I was pregnant and without any choice, so we need to fast forward, our marriage to July 2012.
For the past few months, everything was going well, I am enjoying my pregnancy but happiness do not last very long, my husband was terminate by his company and left him jobless, slowly he is down and he relay to drugs to numb his mind.
He tried to kept it from me and his family but he could not hide it from me for long. I found out and tried to stop him or even tried to talk to him about it. But
he just can't stop the habit and I don't have any choice but to bring it up to his family and I was hoping he could give up for the sake of his daughter but no...
Things from then onwards got really bad. We quarrel most of the time and things got out of control, He started to hit me, punch and even kicked me when I just discharge from the hospital after my operation. My wound hurts really bad. My whole face was swollen, my mouth was bleeding.
My mother who saw me on the weekly basis, who wad so piss off, she scream and asking me to make a police report against him. Please I didn't because my baby was there n u dont wan she saw what happened to her father.
It has been going on for many years, finally I got the strength and confidence to move out of his house, and its together with my daughter. I know I need to diovorce fast, if not he will definitely fight for my daughter custody. He tried to push all the blame to me, he accuse me on abusing my ger and tried his ways and mean to make my life a living hell.
So, I need to find a best lawyer in handing divorce, we went through searching the find the best and cheapest lawyer in Singapore and the prices for these lawyer fee can be damn expensive and it can suddenly stack up to $1.5 to $6000 or more and it's still depend on the nature of the diovorce cast. But nine costs a $4500 nett.
It's so expensive!!! And with the amount I earn, also aren't enough.
So I'm here to seek for your help to help me in this.
Your help means so much..
hank you so much for your time and support.