after 8 years of being engaged it's looking for us like our wedding day might not actually occur, ever!! Almost 9 years ago we met, I had never believed in love at first sight, until I met him. One year later we had our first bundle of joy. The most beautiful thing we had ever seen. Hayden asked me to marry him shortly after And our lives were just so perfect. After countless attempts of trying to save, then being flooded with bills and having to use our savings, we decided that we needed to wait a little longer, get on top of living expenses etc and then try save again. Shortly after we were greeted by our second beautiful baby girl. Although our lives got richer and hearts got fuller our wallets became emptier and our wedding date became further and further out of reach. Our oldest now 7 and our youngest 4, both myself and Hayden working full time have decided to start planning again. Still with empty wallets, we decided to try for a loan. With no success. Now I'm feeling frustrated and angry that no one will give us a go, but mostly, feeling let down and devastated that it's looking like this is never going to happen for us. Searching around on google and found this sight, thought to myself "no way. Is this real? Would anybody help us anyway?" So I've decided, in the hopes that my situation may appeal to some people, to post this and hope and pray that someone, anyone may help us! Let's not beat around the bush, we've had our issues, just like any other couple in love, but now I just want to marry the man of my dreams and start living my happily ever after. Please help!