Running away from my abusive father and getting a rented flat

Hello, my name's Adam Z. (I am also know on the internet as Stefan Ocean and Endik) and I would like share my events that has been going around with my father, my family and me, and why I need your help to make a run, away from my fathers restrictions, blackmailing, threating and so on. I am gonna try to explain this as transparently and clearly as possible.

What has been happening and is still happening?

This problem has been going around for several years now, but only since the start of 2022, my father has taken on a new height of his terror. My father is now unenployed, as he's decided to leave his work for pursuing "free money" by starting a court battle with one of the biggest corporation in my country, asking for big sum of money, but completly devoid of reality. Problems started right at the beginning for me.

1. My father instantly adopted a policy of "military opression" and "either or", meaning that I was left with no choice but to follow him into this mess. This later followed with the rest of my family and who resisted, was cut off, being called "a rat" and "dumbasses". His whole view on the people around his been that we are just good little soldiers, that will do whatever he commands. I've even received his army-styled threats like "I was trained to kill, so don't push me" or "If you were a soldier, I would smack you with the stock of my gun". His service was over 30 years, yet he still thinks that were are just grunts to him.

2. Since he wanted to pressure us to his "courting", he later decided to use blackmailing on me and my sister (maybe on some of my other family members too). My sister was supposedly being threatened and blackmailed for money and wanting her to build a law case for him for free (she was studying laws), as my father didn't want to hire a lawyer, stating that "she'd better do the right thing and help him". Similar things were and are still happening to me, once even blackmailing me with something that did not even happen - saying that, few years ago, I was forcing myself onto a female classmate of mine (the original conversation was more rude verbally, but I don't want to say it here), and saying that "if its a behind you, then I will open it to others". And this scene took place in April.

3. Another problem is that my father is a heavy smoker and drinker, and when he's out, he starts being aggresive and starts squeezing me and others for money (in my case, even a small bottle of alcohol was stolen, that was meant for my friends birthday), so he can enjoy his cigarettes and alcohol. He was squeezing me so much, that one month I ended up with less than half of my work pay. He did and is still doing this to other family members.

4. Lately, he's been also found stealing from me, since I am putting away whatever money I pick up from bank machine. When I confronted him about it, he didn't apologize, instead he got mad and said that "he has to live out of something"

5. I discovered not too long ago that he has problem with the enforcement office, resulting in executor showing up. When I confronted him about, his response was that he doesn't give a damn about some "mafia-executor". This is still relatevely new, but he asked (well, demandingly" that I compile all the files on everything that I own, and give HIM the file, for "safe keeping". I know that is not true, instead he's likely planning to sell all my stuff, in order pay HIS debt and to finance his smoking and drinking habits

There is more of this but these points summorize what kind of person my father is. Some would even argue that some his actions are straight-up illegal.

While I am not the most emotional person out there, I feel very depressed and scared of what can happen to me. I don't feel safe around in my own home, I cannot sometimes even fully sleep, cuz my father likes awake until 4AM and make noise. Now I am worried mainly financially, cuz I am the only one who is working and making money, but I being squeezed more, the longer I am with him. He is making problems with this court case, for me, for my family, for the councils, etc.

I wasn't sure if I could even seek help outside of my family, but I've become so desperate. I exhausted all options of help so I ended up here. All of this is abuse, just so my father can get free money.

What's my plan?

My plan is to hopefully raise maximum of 50000 CZK (around 2000$ in todays exchange). I don't have clue if I'll reach that number so soon, but if it can reach over 30000 CZK, I'll be eternally greateful to you all.

Once the money will be raised, I will be setting setting up an affordable rent in my city. I have been looking around for something small, like a 1+1, and I found some. I can afford to pay the rent month-to-month, but getting the rent first time is gonna cost a lot then I have. From what I saw, it will cost around 30000 CZK.

The rest of the money will used to pay coucil fees, transaction fees, getting the basic furnature like a bed and a table.

I know that I will be running light - some clothing, my PC, documents, etc. Basically anything that I bought with my own money (not a whole lot) and anything regarding work. I say "light" cuz I don't have a lot, so it's gonna be a one way trip, not comming back for anything else.

I do have some money saved, but not nearly enough to make this run.

If you finished readings this, then I thank you from the bottom of heart and I hope you understand why I have to do this. This not a simple small rogue relationship, this is one man breaking the whole family for his own pleasure.

If it's possible here, I will try to answer your questions, just in case I wasn't transparent enough. I will also try to answer any question on Discord and NG.

Thank you for any kind words.