Hello, my name is kathryn I am 33 years old. I have been in a very unhappy marriage and suffered years of extreme psychological abuse from my husband. He insisted that I had to be sterilised last year as he had decided he had completed his family. It didn't matter that I wanted more children. He came with me to the hospital to ensure I had it done. He threatened me continually until I agreed to go ahead. Unknown to me at the time, he was continuing relationships with other women. I was lucky enough to be able to find the courage to leave the relationship in November last year, having had to move in secret. I am now living in rented property where he doesnt know where i am. But my only regret is that I can now not have the further children that I so desire. I am still young enough to have a hopefully successful reversal but the time frame I have isn't great, as the chances of success reduce the longer the clips are in place. Please please help me to fulfill my dream of extending my family. Thank you for taking the time to read this.