Hello all and thanks for your time If ur starting to read my story.
It all begins couple years ago. I met lovely girl and we began to seeing each other. It continued really well, we started to live with each other and last year, in july i decided to ask her to marry me. She agreed. I was incredibly happy and had everything in my life i could have wished for. I had lovely fiancee, i got promoted in my job (from junior to senior position - project manager), finished my bachelor degree and we bought thanks to mortgage apartment which we rent for year.
Everything started to fall apart later that year. I had serious health issues, specifically benign tumor in my back close to kidney. Fortunetly, operation was succesful and i full recovered. But it took almost 3 months and that time cost me position in my job. During this time, the girl i lived with, started ask me to borrow money. She said, their parents are in need and have trouble with something. She know, that i saved up good amount of money and that theres no problem for me to help her. Firstly i though its just one time, its ok to help family of my fiancee, but she kept coming and want more money. First it was fridge, then it was car, house roof. I didnt have really any questions, i just trusted her. I gave her over 3 months all my saved money - 500k czech crowns (aproximetly 25k dollars). It went that far, that i even borrowed some money from bank institute to help her. She kept promising me, that she will repaying me money soon (she was student at university with jsut part time job).
Situation was that bad, that i even have to borrow money from my own family to pay mortgage and loans i have used to help her. I tried talk to her, that we are in real trouble, but she kept saying like "everythings gonan be ok" and so on. I trusted her - for the last time in my life.
It all went up when i decided to confront her parents about the money i borrowed them via their daughter. I was shocked when i heard what i heard. The money never reached them and they were also shocked. Now, anyone of us had no clue why she have need of that much money.
So we decide to confront her together with her parents. She just started to cry and couldnt even say us, what was money for. She jut left the room. During the next day she just came for all her staff in our flat and in cry left. From that time, we didnt talk with each other. I just know, that she has some new boyfriend and lives with him - maybe the money was for him. I rather dont want to know....
So i was left alone with my dog, without any money, with really problematic situation in work and with couple loans and mortgage on my back. Parents of the girl promised me to help, but it never really worked out. I was able to pay something with my job income, but last month i accidently crashed with car and broke my ankle and suddenly was without proper salary again.
Now, im with half salary, with crazy amount of debts, without fiancee and with danger of losing all my staff and flat to bank. I even borrowed money from my friends, now i cant even look into their eyes cuz i have no chance to pay them back. My family is not in state of help, they have their own problems. I barely eat because i have no money, my mortgage is not payed for 2 months already, i have nothing.
To make things worse tumor was discovered on my left testicle and im in monitoring again due to cancer - im scared all of that made by stress created by all of that u read up to this moments.
Money will be used to pay mortgage, to pay all of my debts and eliminate my stress which is complicating my health
My body will heal in time,but my soul is damaged forever.
If u kept reading until these last words, i want to thank you. Even if u decide to not donate anything. Please, be aware of my misstakes, dont trust recklessly anyone and rather check up everything before.
To those who decided to help me, I will never forget it and will be forever in a debt.