Hi, my name is Dennis and I need your support to help my wife Noemi heal from the terrible effects of my sex-addiction and intimacy anorexia.
Noemi and I got married on June 6th, 2014. Looking back, sadly this was not the beginning of her "happily ever after", because there was one thing she did not know about myself - that I had been addicted to pornography and sex for more than 10 years prior to our wedding.
What followed since then were 5 years of heart wrenching pain, suffering, loss and trauma. Even though I was not able to keep up the mask of the true and faithful man she used to believe in, Noemi stayed true to me and our wedding vows. Despite her discoveries of my addictions and tormenting actions she gave her everything trying to help me heal. She did everything a husband could wish for and gave herself up. She sacrificed too much leaving herself broken and traumatized because of my unfaithful behaviours.
Today Noemi suffers from complex PTSD, Betrayal Trauma and different autoimmune diseases, which have developed over time and were the cause for several miscarriages and ongoing severe physical symptoms.
Unfortunately doctors and therapists in Germany do not acknowledge her suffering as much as they should do, leaving her with bad and unsuccessful treatment.
Through this campaign I want to help my wife find hope and healing by raising funds allowing her to receive specialized treatment for betrayal trauma or intensive EMDR treatment, which might not be possible in Germany.
The damage that I have caused in her life might not be redeemed in this life, but every effort will make a difference for her.
Thank you for your support, understanding and empathy!