My fiance and I were suppose to get married back in April of 2013 but his little girl who is 7 had to have surgery on her kidney on April 9th 2013. Shortly after this his ex, in a nice way had a melt down and filed for custody of his 2 children. We had to take every penny we had to get a lawyer. Ever since then we have been struggling to catch our bills up. we are almost there but it took us 2 years to save up for our wedding and we really want to get married May of next year so he can adopt my 4 year old son. My fiance is the only father that my son has ever known and before he gets to old to relize that our last names are different I would like to change it. He said he is ok with a court house wedding but I am not! I believe in only getting married once and I want an at least ok wedding where my family can be there!Thank you so much to whom ever can help us!