Financial Support for Rafe D’Aquino’s Family

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As many of you will be aware already, our wonderful, dear friend Rafe D’Aquino passed away suddenly on the morning of Wednesday 13th May 2020. I know many people are still in shock, heartbroken and struggling to come to terms with what has happened.

Rafe was such a special person. Kind, caring, laid-back, always upbeat – and always hungry! A talented musician, and an amazing playing companion for his kids, and for ours as well. A ‘big kid’ in many ways, and also a wonderfully supportive husband and father, who would do anything for his girls. Alexa is 7, and Lia has just turned 4.

We have been touched to receive so many calls, emails and messages from people offering support, and asking how they can help. We decided to set up this page to keep people up-to-date with plans, and to provide a way for people to contribute to providing some more practical support for Kasia, Alexa and Lia in the near future, in addition to that provided by their families, as they face inevitable financial uncertainty now that they do not have Rafe’s income to pay for their rent and other daily expenses.

Rafe and Kasia just renewed the lease on their home in Lamma last month, where they have lived together for the past 9 years. Our first target is to raise enough money to provide them the security of knowing that they will be able to stay where they are for the duration of the year, and keep their daily routine as normal as possible for the kids in the short term. This will give them the time and space to start to grieve and figure out how to move forward in the wake of their loss, without the added stress of a sudden move out of their home.

We would like to ask for anyone who would like to help and can afford it, to donate using this page. This can also simply be a space for messages of support that the family can read.

It breaks our hearts to know that we can’t bring Rafe back. But we can make a promise to him that we will all help look after Kasia, Alexa and Lia. Thank you so much for all your messages and things you have done for the family already. It would make him so happy to know that they have so much support.

Suzy & Niki

Fundraising Team

  • Nicola Parrington
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  • Campaign Manager
  • Suzy Wright
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  • Campaign Manager
  • Jonathan Maloney
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  • Campaign Owner

Donors

  • Marc and Mark
  • Donated on Jun 11, 2020
  • He will be forever missed. As he always did for us, we will always have your back Kath. Xoxo

AU$5361.00
  • Katie Jones
  • Donated on Jun 11, 2020
AU$1000.00
  • Anonymous
  • Donated on Jun 10, 2020
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Jun 29

A little tweak here...

Update posted by Stanislaw Stankiewicz at 03:58 am

Due to a technical issue with Hong Kong Paypal and GoGetFunding, we've switched the beneficiary over to Kasia's brother, Stan, in Australia where the campaign will continue. Please do keep Rafe, Kasia, Alexa and Lia in your thoughts as we move forward. Thanks, Jon.

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Jun 02

In Loving Memory of Rafael D’Aquino

Update posted by Stanislaw Stankiewicz at 06:09 am

A life so beautifully lived deserves to be beautifully remembered. In celebration of the life of Rafael Martin D’Aquino, born 8th March, 1980 and taken from us on the 13th May, 2020. A funeral service will be held on the 8th June 2020 at 4:00 pm, St. Margaret’s Catholic Church,. . . . .

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May 22

Long term giving, let’s keep this going!

Update posted by Stanislaw Stankiewicz at 12:53 pm

Thank you for your overwhelming kindness. Although we’ve reached the target, further donations can only help the family’s long term future. There will be no deadline, no minimums anymore, just a continual, perpetual fund for the family. Thank you so much again on behalf of the D’Aquino’s.

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Donors & Comments

190 donors
  • Marc and Mark
  • Donated on Jun 11, 2020
  • He will be forever missed. As he always did for us, we will always have your back Kath. Xoxo

AU$5361.00
  • Katie Jones
  • Donated on Jun 11, 2020
AU$1000.00
  • Anonymous
  • Donated on Jun 10, 2020
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  • Mike and Meco Robinson
  • Donated on Jun 09, 2020
  • We're so sorry for you loss. We were so upset when we heard the news. I always enjoyed bumping into him at the playground or a concert and talking about various happenings. He always seemed to be on his way to or from a gig or a rehearsal. We'll miss Rafe's mellow and warm presence on Lamma Island. Our condolences.

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AU$1000.00
  • Sam Craig
  • Donated on Jun 08, 2020
  • Sometimes words just can't do justice to the memories of such a rare and beautiful soul. My love to you Kasia & Family in this, the saddest of times. Rafe will forever be in my heart and soul, playing on.

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  • Magnus Norberg
  • Donated on Jun 07, 2020
AU$3000.00
  • Harry & Mina Llufrio
  • Donated on Jun 07, 2020
  • Sincere condolences for such a great loss. Rage was a legend in many ways. Will miss him greatly.

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  • Anonymous
  • Donated on Jun 07, 2020
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  • From friends of Nicole & Blair
  • Donated on Jun 06, 2020
  • We are so sorry for your loss.

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