PLEASE HELP TONY FINALLY BE ABLE TO MAKE HIS LIFE BETTER

Update posted by Jill Ashmore On Nov 22, 2017

Hi everyone .. it's holiday time tomorrow and I'm sure your all busy getting ready for it . Please could you spare a few minutes and maybe a few dollars to help make it a better holiday tomorrow for Tony and Rocky too ? Tony isn't looking forward to tomorrow at all . Hes dreading being sat alone in his room all day just thinking about his dad and brother and missing them so very much . I will do everything I can to try and be there for him and cheer him up but he is very down at the moment . He's telling me over and over that he doesn't want to be here and to just pray he dies soon . I have a music DVD I will try and watch with him tomorrow via face chat if he will join me for it which I hope he will be able to enjoy . I'll try and let him come join us via face chat later too so he feels less alone but wish he could come join us for real . Of course the thing he wants more than anything we cant give him .. to be with his dad and brother again . I will be trying to help him feel less alone and trying to look after him though even from over here in the UK . Hes asked me to try and get him another night covered tonight before everyone goes away for the holiday too ... so do you think we could do that ??

what Tony said ..

I'm gonna be in the streets not myself not looking forward to tomorrow at all just wanna be with my family I'm gonna lose everything and I don't know where I'm gonna go when I gotta check out our how I'm gonna get there I'm very nervous and worried now I wish my father and brother where here I want off this world . Do it early so everyone can see it and try and get one more night covered before everyone goes away for the holiday . Fingers crossed and praying very hard I'm not myself and I'm gonna be alone and feel so lonely without my family here

I am kind of wondering if we will ever be able to make this car happen for Tony now , BUT also know that if everyone seeing my appeal gave just $10 each then that's all that would be needed ... $10 to make a Thanksgiving miracle happen for Tony and Rocky who are so distraught and have been struggling for so long .. could we do it ??

If anyone would like to donate to brighten up Tonys Thanksgiving and show him you've remembered him this holiday .. even just $10 will help .. please send it using [email protected] using the family and friends option so Tony gets the full donation .If anyone wants to share this fund raiser .. and ask if their friends would like to remember Tony at Thanksgiving .. the link is https://gogetfunding.com/please-help-tony-finally-...

TOMORROW IS THANKSGIVING AND TONIGHT I GIVE THANKS FOR ALL OF YOU .. OUR SPECIAL SUPPORTERS .. WHO HELP ME KEEP TONY SAFE AND IN A ROOM ... HAVE A TRULY BLESSED THANKSGIVING ALL OF YOU AND REMEMBER TO SAY A PRAYER FOR ALL THOSE LIKE TONY DREADING THE HOLIDAY . DO WHAT YOU CAN TO MAKE IT JUST THAT TINY BIT BETTER FOR THEM ... SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS A HELLO CAN MEAN THE WORLD TO THAT PERSON EVERYONE ELSE IGNORES AND WALKS STRAIGHT PAST AND IS SO SIMPLE FOR EVERYONE TO DO ... THANK YOU SO MUCH ALL OF YOU XXXX

Update posted by Jill Ashmore On Nov 16, 2017

Thank you Laurie for your donation last night . Its a bit more towards what we need and every bit donated gets us that step closer . The very frustrating thing is that every day Tony also has to pay out for his room too , eating into what is donated and stopping it building up so he can cover what is needed for the car unless we get in more than he is paying out . At the moment we are still about $280 short on what he needs for the car and if we keep the $200 donated for the car on one side his room is only covered till Saturday . If we can get a couple of really good donations in then just maybe we can make this work .. but I think that is what its going to need or lots of people making a small donations .

I hope there is someone out there who will be able to help us that way and we can make this work , because having a car would make all the difference to Tony especially if he was to lose his room . Without a car he will find it very hard to get for his follow up appointment at the doctors which will mean he cant start the disability application too . A car would help him in so many other ways too like being able to get to the grocery store so he can use his food card , being able to get mail from his po box and being able to swap hotels when he has to more easily .This should all ease a little bit of the stress he is constantly under and help his blood pressure and other health issues too . I truly hope we can make it work

I've been at training for work all day today so wasn't able to get on the internet until I got back and Tony was in a real state . He had managed to sleep a little bit but had woke up thinking his dad and brother were still with him , not knowing where he was and very confused . He was so distraught and distressed and a real mess , sobbing down the phone that he cant do this any more and just wants to be with his dad and brother again . Hes feeling so alone today and is very stressed trying to figure out what he should do . I hope we can make this work and he can have his car for the holidays because he really is dreading another holiday alone . I think that is part of what he was so upset about today too .. the holidays approaching which is always hard time for him . Please if you can help tonight or over this weekend then it is desperately needed .

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY HELP YOU CAN GIVE XXX

Update posted by Jill Ashmore On Nov 15, 2017

I really pray we can make this work .

Tony explained to his friend who was bringing the car that he would probably need more time to get the money for it together . I dont think they were very happy but said they will probably bring it Thursday or Friday now . That will give us some extra time to get what we need in

What it will also mean is Tony has to cover the cost of his room up till then before they bring it which is going to take all that he currently has . We had one donation in for the car last night that Tony wants to keep aside for it , but needs to keep his room too .

From what hes been saying tonight I misunderstood what he said yesterday too . When he said that to transfer it to his name was only going top be $15 because the tags were good till February I thought that was the same as registering it . Its done differently over there to what it is here in the UK . Today he explained to me no he still has to pay $200 to register it too .. so that will be extra to what I was thinking last night . He also has said he doesn't think he would cope living in the car and still wants to try and hold onto a room if he can but maybe could cope with just a couple of nights at a time in the car if he had to . We can work that out though I'm sure and try to maybe do a bit of both or something if he needs to .

What we do need to work on now though is having enough to cover the room up till he gets the car and to get the car sorted out too . The room up till then is just about covered but not past Friday .. and we have a good chunk of what is needed for the catr .. but still need your help to get the rest in . If anyone cant donate now but will be able to at the weekend please it might help if you can let me know . That way we can have some better idea of if we might be able to make this work .

When we spoke earlier on today the first time Tony was quite upbeat and hopeful , but a couple of hours later was very down again saying it was never going to work and he would never get the car and may as well forget going to the doctors . I told him we were going to make it work though and he had people who do care about him and want him to get that car and together we will all make it work . Lets show him miracles do happen and this is going to be his miracle ,he is going to be able to have that car.

He has had 10 long years of sheer hell with so much worry and stress lost his family who meant so much to him and stood by his little dogs when so many dump them for such trivial reasons . Getting this car would mean that hes not going to need help to get where he needs to be any more and will have a place he and Rocky and his belongings can be safe if he loses his room . Just maybe this can lead to other things too like him getting his health improved and some disability or other income and maybe even down the line if he is feeling up to it some sort of job again and a better place to live . Maybe even in a better cheaper area in time .. but its going to be steadily one step at a time and wont happen overnight and he needs us all to be there still for him through it all.


THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY HELP YOU CAN GIVE TONIGHT XX

Update posted by Jill Ashmore On Nov 14, 2017

Hi everyone ... Just spoke with Tony .. to cover what the car is going to cost .. insurance $200 , Smog $70 and another $15 to transfer it he needs $285 . At the moment he is about $180 short on that .. and needs to cover the room too after tonight .. $66 a night . Its a hard decision , as we are struggling to cover his room sometimes especially with the holidays getting close now too . Does he blow it on the car and have somewhere safe for Rocky and his belongings if he cant cover his room and a way to get about but be left with the very real possibility that he wont have money to cover his room . Or does he forget the car and put everything towards the room when hes lost those who were helping him with lifts and its getting hard to cover the room . I truly truly dont know what to advise him but this is one last try to see what we can get in tonight towards making the car work if everything is put towards it . At least then he would be able to get around and would have a safe place to be if he cant cover his room . I have nothing to donate .. I've already stretched my money beyond its limit helping him this month when he needed it .. so he really does need you guys .. please please help him make the most of this opportunity.

Tony's just messaged me saying now hes had a call saying he needs to go back to urgent care ,I dont know why . Hes also trying to sort some sort of disability out and also has to make an appointment at the doctors too ... his head is just spinning with it all and hes getting so confused and needs to be able to stay safe whilst it all gets sorted out and needs to be able to get to these appointments too ... hes begging me to help him get back into his room and have enough to sort out the car so he can get everything else sorted out too . I've told him we will all do all we can to help him ... I just pray that can be enough to make it all work out

If anyone can donate tonight ... I think go back to using paypal and send via the family and friends option so Tony gets the full amount you send him .

The link to the new fund raiser is https://gogetfunding.com/please-help-tony-finally-... if anyone needs it

THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH FOR ANY HELP YOU CAN GIVE XXX

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