Please Help My Family!!!!
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About me..My Name is Tammy and I am a Single 44 yr old, Mom. of 3 Daughters.. On May 13th 2011,
My Dads Untimely Death May 13th 2011
My Dad passed away, after a long battle of throat, and mouth cancer. He had mouth cancer for the last 6 yrs, but it went in remission, and he had been doing well. He had went through Chemo & Radiation. On May 1st he had his little toe taken off, due to diabetes, and came home. He was sitting at the kitchen table and yawned, and when he did, he felt a very excruciating pain in his face, and nose. We took him to the ER just to find he had broken his Jaw bone, and his nasal canal had crumbled. After some choice curse words, he told me to bring him home, he was done with the surgeries, and wanted to go home, and die. He went in his room, and closed the door, and we figured he would cool off after awhile, and come back out of his room. That evening he went in to a coma(which was odd, or did he know something?) We called in Hospice, and they continued to take care of him. 10 days later my sister flew in to see him, and we sat on the bed, and talked to him, and he sat up like nothing had ever happend, and said My Girls... He was so happy to see me and my sister together, we hadnt seen each other in many years, nor had my dad seen her.
Mom Got Sick with Bronchitis, and lost her fight with Pneumonia June 6th
My Mom started with breathing issues, and was rushed to the hospital. She had Bronchittis. As Days went on, She continued to get a lil worse, and no one could figure out what was going on with her. Her Bronchitis turned in to Pneumonia, and then her kidneys started to shut down, They had to put mom on Kidney Dialysis. I couldnt believe it, Dad just came out of his Coma, and mom was getting sicker and sicker as the hours went by. The Doctor had called to let me know, Moms organs were slowly starting to all shut down, but no one knew why, Mom had mentioned them saying she had a clot in her 2ndary vein in her left leg, but when I had asked the Dr's no one seemed to know a thing about it. Until one nurse, who told us well yes, she has one, but its nothing serious. Well, I didnt ask if it was serious or not, I had asked if she had one..So, as the days moved on, they called to ask if they could put mom in ICU because they wanted to watch the Pneumonia a little better, and also they wanted to put a centeral line in her neck, I was then informed, mom has Sepsis of the blood, which is causing her organs to start shutting down.. Blood Poison from Pneumonia? OK this was the craziest thing I have ever heard.. a few days later I get a call at home from the dr. He wanted to talk to me about my moms legs, and her circulation, I siad Circulation? Whats wrong with her circulation? Well, You know your mom is a smoker.. I said yes.. and what does that have to do wih her leg? He said well, We have been watching her legs over the last few hrs and brought the Specialist in here, and we think we should remove your moms right leg, and her left foot.. WHATT??? Are you serious? It seemed like everytime I had talked to the dr from that point on, it was something else, more bizzare then the next going on with my mom, They then put her on an internal Ventelator to help her breathing. A nurse approached me and asked if she could talk to me in Private about what has been going on with my mom, she said Miss, If I were you, I would ask for an Autopsy for when your mom passes, because ive never seen anything like this happen before. So Ok.. I refuse the dr to Amputate at this point, she has lost all organ function, she has blood poison, and now she isnt breathing on her own... Its time God Handles things from here.. So Anyway. I asked the dr for an Autopsy, and I didnt get the autopsy for 16 months, I called the hospital last month an asked where it was, and I was told by the lady in the records department that it wasnt completed yet. I was kind of scared to ask for it, and make a big fuss, because I was spent, all the money I had was now gone, and i was affraid if I had the 5000 bill now, I couldnt afford it.
Our Home is Slowly Slipping away from us, and Falling apart..
So Anyway, Me and my 3 Daughters have been living in our house since Mom & Dad passed away, and it seems like everything Ive touched has started to fall apart. My Kitchen Sink isnt working, so we have to wash dishes in our bathroom tub, the bathroom sink stopped working because a I THINK I KNOW IT ALL HANDIMAN screwed up my pipe, my wall in the tub is starting to collapse, and the tiles are falling off, My Car Broke down 2 months after I had purchased it from the estate it was my moms. 2 Months after the Estate opened, I purchased it, so i could have something to drive, Apparently mom didnt have oil changes when she should have, and her 2003 Suzuki Areio motor seized up on me, and I havent had a car since. I dont live in an Area where its very close to get anywhere, so I have to sit in the house, day in and day out. The neighbors here are pretty much older, and i do check in on them but I cant ask them to drive me anywhere, so most times I have to go without, and so do my children. Both my Washer & Dryer broke at the same time, and My Children and I have to wash out our Clothes, and wring them out by hand, and find somewhere to hang them to dry. Life has not been easy, I must say. When I got sick & Stopped Working...
My Parents were my soul caretakers since I stopped working in 2006 from Medicine Shoppe Pharmacy as a Tech, not believing in government handouts. Well with both parents passing away with in 2 1/2 weeks, and I not having an income, and my parents didnt have much, they werent big on spending, and barely made it by, Their isnt anything to sell at an estate sale, and I paid for their Funerals out of my lifetime savings account. 26,0000, and then I paid for the car, and other miselanious bills which came to nearly 43,000. I have paid for most of my parents bills, but I have The Lawyer & A bill left now, in the amount of 13.000. If I dont pay this lawyer & Bill by December, I will lose my Lifetime home, and so will my children. I also have to come up with 2,000 more for the property taxes. Things have been so rough here, and the Government cant give any assistance, because I have to much assets, meaning my car which isnt working, and the home im living in now, since its willed to me, but not yet settled. Some days We go without Toiletries, some days we go without food, When you take those things for granite on a daily basis, you never realize what its like to be without toilet paper, or soap, or shampoo, or even paper towels. my Children and Myself arent use to living like this, and yes I am ashamed to have lived off of my parnets for 5 yrs, but when I became disabled my father refused to let me get any help, He said I was his daughter, and he would take care of me, and he did. I guess none of us thought he wouldnt be here anymore, and especially to have lost him and my mom both in such a short time. Ive sold everything Ive owned, Which wasnt much, and Now, I am totally without. Me and my Girls have been living off of my Daughters Paycheck every week $220 Gross, and Id love to be able to help her out, I am currently waiting on Social Security to process my claim, but until then, Im scared we are going to lose the only home Ive ever known, and so is my children. Please, if you can help donate a dollar or 2, or what ever you can, Nothing is too small believe me. The cheapest thing you may take for granite, such as T.P, or a loaf of bread, means the world to me and my children. It breaks my heart to hear my kids say how hungry they are, and I cant help, i sit here and cry myself to sleep at night, because I am failing at being a mother, their father left me yrs ago, and played the system, so he doesnt have to pay child support. Its ok, I supported them 100% until I got sick, and they saw everything their mom did for them, they know how much i love them,and how much i sacrificed for them, and myself. If Prayers are the only way you can help, Id love for you to say a prayer for me.. Thank you! Tammy
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