Greetings to all my worldwide friends,
Serah & I have just decided to take that important big step and do a traditional wedding. We believe this will be important not only in helping us have a blessed marriage, but also in making sure we do things right both before God, our parents and our friends. We are believing to have completed the entire process by April 2021.
A little bit about my story
Growing up I never really valued marriages or good relationships because I came from a very dysfunctional home. Most if not all of the relationships I ever had were messed up. I had trust issues, I just felt there were no more good women and any woman that came into my life was just out to use me and leave me. Back then, if anyone would have told me that my life would turn around and I would meet an amazing lady that would renew my interest in love - I would not have believed it. Mix my addiction to alcohol, bad life choices and combine that with bad relationships and what you get is a recipe for disaster. It is evident that at this time in my life, I was incapable of loving my future wife right. I was incapable of getting my life in order. I was incapable of starting a good marriage at the time because my life was not okay. As the year 2018 was slowly coming to an end after being discouraged, heartbroken, almost giving up on relationships and not happy with the way my life was heading; I made an honest prayer to GOD and asked him to change my life completely. I began changing those bad habits and began replacing them with them good ones. For example, instead of hanging out with my drinking buddies on Fridays, I began going to the gym instead. Instead of wasting time, I got more serious in whatever I was doing and I began to think deeply about the years that laid ahead. I also cleaned up my life of all those toxic things that were keeping me from being more focused and less energized to go out and fulfill my purpose. In short, I wanted to try a different way of doing things because the previous method I used was not getting me the results I wanted. I began being more responsible in how I manage my duties and my finances whatever small I got and just around that time that is when Serah and I met. Fast Forward to a year and half later and I could not be more happier. With the help l got from GOD ALMIGHTY and the constant encouragement I got from Serah as an accountable partner to me, I was finally able to overcome drunkedness and got my life cleaned up. I also quit dating apps because there was no way l could still be there and get a fulfilling relationship. I cut ties with old girlfriends and I stopped wasting time and found new mature friends who helped me grow and handle my business properly as a man. I was also more focused and more responsible.
I love Serah so much because she found me when l was so messed up yet stayed. l was actually expecting her to leave yet she still remained by me. The fact that she is still in my life even after all the quarrels and how difficult l was at first is proof that she is a wonderful wife to be. She believed l could change and be a better version of my old self. She pushed me out of my comfort zone and encouraged me that we could build something beautiful if we worked towards it. She is a believer in hardwork and this renewed that hardworking spirit within me and l knew if she could do it, l could do it also well.
That's the main reason why l have decided to marry this very amazing special person because l could not compare her to all of the past girlfriends l ever had. She is unique and a beautiful soul to be around. To this day am very happy she was sent to my life at the right time. So my wonderful friends help me make this dream come to life by marrying this amazing lady before it takes too long and someone snatches her out of my life 😂
How funds will be used
All funds received will go to cater for dowry expenses, ceremony-related expense, food & drinks, venue, certificates, parents attires, honeymoon expenses and the remaining money will be used to provide support for our new family.
So remember, no amount is too small we welcome all donations and we cannot thank you enough for whatever support you choose to extend to us. We will always be grateful for how you played a big role towards the success of our big day. It will be a very important period in our lives and we will always be thankful because your help enabled us to have a successful traditional wedding. GOD bless you more for your donations 🙏